Check out Hasani Pettiford, relationship expert, marriage coach and infidelity recovery specialist as he breaks down 2 of the 5 Love Languages discussed on the Love Confidential panel on May 22, 2015, in Atlanta, GA. If you missed it, you really missed an opportunity for great dialogue about relationships and how to better understand your love language and that of your mate.
As I was prepping for the panel I discovered that my Love Language is Quality Time. I desire to spend time with my mate. Now, we don't have to spend every waking moment together but I value those moments where we are in the same space at the same time engaging in quality conversations or laying quietly in each others arms or doing an activity together. As long as we are together and are engaged with one another I am a happy camper. I also discovered that I am a Giver and like to do Acts of Service. I realized that I like to shower my mate with gifts that have meaning. They aren't neceissarily expensive gifts but they are thoughtful. If my mate likes basketball I may surprise him with tickets to a game or if his favorite color is red I may purchase an article of clothing in that color. I try to put thought into my gift giving. Now, as far as acts of service I like to cater to my mate. I may cook his favorite meal just because or give him a hot bath or massage his feet after work. I like to make sure that my mate feels special and not just on his Birthday or a Holiday but on every day of the week!
DateYourselfGirl isn't just a platform for me to go out on dates but it's a platform to gain more knowledge about becoming a better individual so when that special someone comes into my life I will be better equipped to have a happy, healthy relationship! It is my desire to share this knowledge with you with the hopes that you are inspired and encouraged!