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"I have to say I am truly inspired by what you have done with this movement. I was having trouble in a relationship with a guy and couldn’t figure out what to do. I knew I was settling and wasn’t happy but there was the fear of being alone. Then I just so happened to click on the DateYourSelfGirl website and read your introduction advising women to appreciate their worth and I knew that was the sign I needed to let this relationship (which was distracting and unhealthy) finally go. Afterwards I felt relieved and renewed. I understand that it is important to appreciate and love myself first and foremost. So each day I make it a point to “date myself” and do something for myself that I enjoy. For that, I thank you." - Tiffany O., DYG Follower

Working Through the Valentine’s Day Blues Without Losing Yourself

V alentine’s Day has a way of sneaking up on us, right ladies ? No matter how whole, confident, or grounded we are, February 14th can whisper old stories of Why not me? or Am I too late? or Where did I go wrong? If you’re feeling a little blue this Valentine’s season, let me say this clearly (clears throat) NOTHING is wrong with you! You are not late to the love party. You are not forgotten. You are definitely NOT lacking love. You are simply human with real, r

DateYourselfGirl Tracey Bonner

1 day ago3 min read

Making & Breaking New Year’s Resolutions and Finding Your Balance All Year Long

Every December, we start whispering sweet nothings to the upcoming year like it’s a new situationship we’re sure will be different this time. “2026 is MY year.”“I’m gonna drink more water and mind my business.”“No, seriously… THIS is my glow-up era.” And honestly? The optimism seems real cute. The vision boards are on point. The intentions are noble. But let’s talk about the truth of the matter, shall we? Most of us make resolutions we don’t keep BUT that doesn’t mean we

DateYourselfGirl Tracey Bonner

Jan 23 min read

Dating the Same Man Over and Over Who Won’t Commit: When Hope Becomes a Holding Pattern

I t's the same never ending cycle. You meet a man. There’s chemistry. You laugh, talk, share. He says all the right things or at least enough of the right things. It’s not official , but it’s something. Then weeks turn into months. Maybe you’ve had the talk. Maybe you’ve avoided it, hoping things will “just fall into place.” But here’s the thing: they never do Instead, you find yourself stuck in a familiar loop, a hamsterwheel of sorts, dating the same man over and over aga

DateYourselfGirl Tracey Bonner

Dec 1, 20254 min read