Every December, we start whispering sweet nothings to the upcoming year like it’s a new situationship we’re sure will be different this time. “2026 is MY year.”“I’m gonna drink more water and mind my business.”“No, seriously… THIS is my glow-up era.” And honestly? The optimism seems real cute. The vision boards are on point. The intentions are noble. But let’s talk about the truth of the matter, shall we? Most of us make resolutions we don’t keep BUT that doesn’t mean we

I t's the same never ending cycle. You meet a man. There’s chemistry. You laugh, talk, share. He says all the right things or at least enough of the right things. It’s not official , but it’s something. Then weeks turn into months. Maybe you’ve had the talk. Maybe you’ve avoided it, hoping things will “just fall into place.” But here’s the thing: they never do Instead, you find yourself stuck in a familiar loop, a hamsterwheel of sorts, dating the same man over and over aga

In my 30s and early 40s, when I first heard the word Perimenopause , I shrugged it off. I thought it was something that would creep up quietly in my 50s. A few hot flashes here ( "WHERE THEM FAAAANS AT?!" ), a missed period or two there, then menopause, right? How bad could it really be, right? I had no idea it would feel like a mental and physical rollercoaster that no one prepared me for. Why didn't someone tell me about this sooner? And where are the support circles a

I don't mean to start off crass but F**** the weight of expectation during the holidays! In many Black families and communities, tradition runs deep. We cherish connection, celebrate hard work, and value love and partnerships. My grandparents were married for 61 and 47 years and the only reason their marriages ended was because my grandfathers passed away. I know, that was a different era, but the point is that relationships have always been important in my family. But

Taking a break from blogging wasn’t in the plan. Honestly, it scared me. DateYourselfGirl had become such a meaningful part of my...

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DYG believes that giving back is a necessary step in the healing process. Giving back to your friends, family, and community promotes...

Every year we set out to make New Year’s goals/resolutions. We do this in search of becoming a better version of ourselves. We say it...

The holidays are upon us and it’s time to make lists. But are you giving presents or presence? Let me break it down for you, according...

Greetings DateYourselfGirl Blog Supporters! We at DateYourselfGirl, Inc. hope you had a fantastic holiday full of fun, family, and LOVE!...

We usually reserve it for the things and other people in your life, but have you ever shown it to yourself? Have you really thought...

Let me begin by saying all relationships matter!!! And I believe all of our relationships play a part in our personal lives. You've got a...

One thing about it, two things for sure, we can always count on life being unpredictable. We experience highs and lows, love and loss,...

You ever wondered why the men you’re dating or are interested in won’t commit to a relationship with you? Well, I know I have. I cannot...

Isn’t Summer just a vibe? Hanging with your crew—meeting on rooftop patios, hitting up day parties, bottomless brunches, just carefree,...

Hey Ladies, do you have a vision board? Or more specifically, do you have that infamous “LIST” I hear all these relationship gurus talk...

Hey Sis….Enough already. Enough. Enough. Enough. It’s time to face the music and get down to the root of your discontentment in your...

A few weeks ago my family was hit by the unexpected suicide of a family friend. This was not only a shocker to us but to our community,...

Okay sis, it’s time that we really stop looking in the future and instead focus on the now. I get it, I’m a dreamer too, so living in the...