V alentine’s Day has a way of sneaking up on us, right ladies ? No matter how whole, confident, or grounded we are, February 14th can whisper old stories of Why not me? or Am I too late? or Where did I go wrong? If you’re feeling a little blue this Valentine’s season, let me say this clearly (clears throat) NOTHING is wrong with you! You are not late to the love party. You are not forgotten. You are definitely NOT lacking love. You are simply human with real, r

I t's the same never ending cycle. You meet a man. There’s chemistry. You laugh, talk, share. He says all the right things or at least enough of the right things. It’s not official , but it’s something. Then weeks turn into months. Maybe you’ve had the talk. Maybe you’ve avoided it, hoping things will “just fall into place.” But here’s the thing: they never do Instead, you find yourself stuck in a familiar loop, a hamsterwheel of sorts, dating the same man over and over aga

If you are anything like me you live for the day a man or woman asks you on a date, picks you up, brings flowers or candy, opens doors,...

Okay sis, it’s time that we really stop looking in the future and instead focus on the now. I get it, I’m a dreamer too, so living in the...

Thank You Ex…welp, those are words that I never thought I would utter. I mean, they are an ex right? They are supposed to stay in the...